Guidance, Connection & Fulfillment

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Is Your Relationship Healthy?

Healthy relationships are more likely to endure the typical relationship struggles all couples face. All relationships adapt over time. Healthy couples tend to….

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Can Gratitude Improve Your Relationship

Happy couples tend to express gratitude for each other and gratitude for being together. Focusing on the things that you are grateful for about your partner and about your relationship adds positive energy to your relationship. Research on couples indicates that people who took time to express gratitude for their partner not only…

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Financial Wisdom For Your Relationship

There is no right way to share finances in your relationship. However you manage your bank accounts, these seven strategies will help you, and remember, communication is crucial.

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Finding Purpose After Tragedy

We have seen far too many appalling reports of horrific and unnecessary loss of life. It’s difficult to process any loss, especially such a tragic loss. But it may be possible to in time make it feel a little like something helpful or meaningful has come out of the tragedy.

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3 A's for a Happier Relationship

Developing relationship-enhancing habits is an excellent way to protect it from deteriorating. These habits will infuse your relationship with positive energy and help fortify it against the frustrations and problems that every relationship encounters. The three A's for increasing relationship happiness…

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Loving Couple & Family Memories

When you marry or form a relationship, you join two family cultures together, and you have important decisions to make. What will you keep and let go of, and how will you create your unique family culture. Choose traditions that you can enjoy together as a couple and create traditions that will pull your future or current family together…

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Setting Smart Boundaries

If you notice yourself feeling resentful toward your partner or complaining about them, it might be time to consider setting a boundary or several. Healthy boundaries mean not allowing others to tell you how…

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Celebrate Success Together

When was the last time you told your partner or loved ones that they were amazing? Have you ever been guilty of shrugging off something they were excited to share with you? It requires confidence and maturity to truly join with our partners as they celebrate success. Sincerely celebrate by…

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Live Life Now

I hope that we don't put off for tomorrow things that we will regret. So, what have you been avoiding or putting off? Consider if there may be things…

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Embrace Stress & Avoid Distress

We tend to think of stress as something to avoid or something we want to remove from our lives. The reality is that a certain amount of stress may add a little excitement and challenge to our lives. If we had zero stress our lives could become ho-hum and boring. In general, our performance improves as stress increases up to a point….

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Six Ways to take a Restorative Break

Have you have ever wondered why you don’t feel refreshed after taking a break at work or home? Research indicates that there are helpful and less helpful break-time activities. For example, a good break helps increase our brain function, helps us concentrate, and reduces mental fatigue. On the other hand….

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Libido Killers

The disparity in desire can lead to a build-up of resentment and create distance in the relationship. Many factors can distract, discourage or dampen libido. These libido killers affect …

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Why Can't I Make Up My Mind

Do you have trouble landing on a decision? Or trouble sticking to a decision once you have made it? Have you ever delayed deciding until the decision was made for you? Possible reasons for indecisiveness include…

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Why We Push Away Those We Love

There is, unfortunately too much truth in the idea that the only people we really hurt are those we most love. Exploring our tendencies to...

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